A CONFLUENCE OF TEARS
I recently was catching up with an old college pal, Lexi, when the conversation turned to Game of Thrones. We joked a bit about how to discuss the show properly without spoiling any of it (we’d both seen all of it, but that principle may be for another post). One thing led to another, spoilery territory led to Lost, and I decided to come up with a list of the Top 5 Greatest Cries (at least in theatre or onscreen) that I’ve experienced.
For the record, I’ve tried to keep this SPOILER free. However, if you haven’t seen (or read, even if you didn’t see a particular production) - proceed with caution.
5: The finale of Lost. OK, I know. Right off the bat, a very divisive entry. I was obsessed with Lost! Truth be told, the last 2 seasons (arguably more or less) dropped the ball. An infuriating ending to one of the most enigmatic shows in my lifetime (so far). However, years later I rewatched the series, and had a very personal connection with the ending shot. It may have been due to my own wrangling with a familiar sense of loss in my father’s passing, but it hit home in a very big (definitely existential) way.
4: Jez Butterworth’s Jerusalem. This is a tricky one. I’m not even sure if I cried, technically, at the end of this (at least not on the first viewing). This production was so profound, I found myself on my feet before I had even recognized that I had moved . It was an insanely visceral response. My entire being - especially my heart - was ready to burst out of any physical boundaries of my body. Astonishing.
3. Mudbound on Netflix. Jesus, just watch it. I literally shouted at the screen multiple times. Grab some tissues and just deal with it. It was an early entry (I think) as far as Netflix films go, but this deserved so many more awards that it received. A stunning piece, and one of the greatest in cinema thus far into the century.
2. The National Theatre production fo All My Sons in 2001. This is so so so so hard. I want this to be #1. I will say that Laurie Metcalf’s performance is still the greatest performance I have ever seen. Ever. Period. By ANYONE (and I’m a HUGE Rylance devotee). I will undoubtedly talk more about this production in a future post, but this is a post about great cries. . .
1: The Safety of Objects. An absolutely devastating book (I couldn’t even finish Homes’ Things You Should Know), and an equally devastating film. I won’t bore you with all of the context (a friend had broken down while watching the film [at home] due to a personally charged reaction to specific moments) - this is a film that left me literally stunned. Rather than feel the immediate burn of the film at its climax, we had to talk our friend down. The cathartic meltdown didn’t happen for me until a few hours later, when I was on the 6 train back home, very late at night. I was alone in the car, and then BAM! It hit me. Out of nowhere- hot, furious tears and snot the temperature of lava thrusting from my face. I hesitate to recommend it, yet. . .